Helping Your Child Transition to Brown
Support for Transfer Families The Brown International Academy community
welcomes you to our school! We hope that you’re as excited as we are for next
fall. It will be a wonderful time as we get to know and engage with so many new
families like yours. While it’s an exciting time
for us, we understand that families transferring from other schools or learning or home environments may be
feeling a bit anxious about the transition. You may be wondering how quickly your
child will adjust, make new friends and generally fit in. We have every confidence
that he or she will. To help your child and you through the adjustment period,
we have implemented a new learner buddy system and compiled a few helpful tips.
Learner Buddy System Since we know that the
largest school transition issue most children face is a sea full of unfamiliar faces,
we will assign your child a buddy for his or her first two weeks of school. Your
child’s buddy will be a “seasoned student” who welcomes your student the first
day (and hopefully every day after that), introduces your child to other
students, plays with him or her on the playground, and helps your child quickly
learn the ropes -- such as lunchroom procedures, restroom locations, etc.
This buddy support for your
child not only makes the change process a smoother one for your child, but it also
provides an opportunity for current learners to practice the IB attitudes of empathy
and acceptance. At Brown, we believe these attitudes are as important to learn
and practice as knowledge and inquiry. Helpful Transition Tips To help parents/guardians through
the transition process, we have also compiled some new school transition tips. These
were gleaned from Web sites by an incoming Brown parent, and include kids’
suggestions as well. Feel free to practice them as you see fit. Over the Summer - When discussing
the transition, avoid creating anxiety in your child – and instead remain calm
and cheerful. If you are anxious, your child’s anxiety may be increased too.
- Acknowledge any
feelings of nervousness your child may have. Try saying “It’s only natural to
feel nervous,” rather than “Don’t be silly, there’s nothing to worry about.”
Feelings of fear and anxiety are normal emotional reactions for a child
experiencing a change.
When School Starts - Encourage your
child to help other students and teachers with activities and tasks in
the
classroom and on the playground. - Encourage your
child to smile at and play with the other children, relax and be him or herself.
- Encourage your
child to focus initially on building a friendship with one or two children,
especially his or her Brown buddy. - Encourage your
child to talk to you about the transition, especially during the first few
weeks of school. Conversation with you will allow your child to process
feelings and reduce anxiety.
Finally, please feel free to
meet with your child’s teacher if your child is expressing difficulty in making
the adjustment. The teacher will work diligently to support your child’s
transition into the Brown community next fall. So again, welcome to Brown! Please
let us know if there is anything else we can do to enable your family’s smooth
transition to our school. Aside from school resources in the form of staff who
care about the well being of your child, there is a great, collaborative
network of parents who are also available to help. See you soon!
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